Have you ever met a stranger?

My mother talks about how she has “never met a stranger”. I am picturing her right now, standing in line at some store (any store), striking up a conversation.

As an introverted child, it was always a bit horrifying. However, as I have grown older, I appreciate the ability to seek out connection with others.

I was traveling by myself recently and decided to make a conscience effort to reach out to the people around me rather than focus on myself. It was a bit of an experiment, to be honest.

I initiated pleasantries with the cashier at the airport snack shop. I told a woman in the Southwest boarding line that I liked her necklace. I struck up a conversation with a woman that was having a bad day and who needed someone to listen to her. I helped someone find a spot for someone’s overhead bag and retrieved it after the plane landed. None of these things were that big of deal by any means, but enough to show me that there are plenty of opportunities all around me in the everyday of life to make a small impact.

I used to think I was pretty considerate but now realize I need a lot of work. It feels like I am swimming upstream as I try to change well-worn behaviors of self-focus. It’s a daily battle.

I do notice that my patience improves when I can look outside of myself. The lines aren’t as frustrating because the waiting no longer feels wasted. They are opportunities for the Spirit to show me what to do or say next. By prioritizing the present moment over my final destination, I stop rushing and feel more at peace.

I came to the conclusion that every moment is an opportunity to love my neighbor, but that I need to get out of my head to do it.

How about you? Have you ever met a stranger?

Do you ever hesitate to reach out or second guess doing something for another because it just seems like too much effort? (Hopefully it isn’t just me)

Do you ever feel like the time in between big events and activities is wasted and unproductive?

How much of your day is spent rushing around? Why?

When do you feel most at peace and fulfilled?

Scripture

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” Philippians 2:3-4

“Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.” Romans 12:10